Jim2 wrote:The term "unisex" is already being used by some clothing stores to indicate clothes, including skirts and dresses, that can be worn by males. It is rare, but it exists.
My objection to the "word" is borne entirely in the way that it's been historically used, and I've been alive an conscious throughout the whole span. That there are newer uses of the term emerging I find interesting, but the historical baggage drags like an anchor on sandy ground.
If the term can shake off its history, I'll be happy to embrace it. 'Til then, I'll be looking for another term.
The site
http://tootsamacginty.com/ bills all of its children's clothes as unisex, and that includes the dresses they sell. In their description of dresses it started with, "A wearable, beautifully designed dress is a wardrobe essential for any girl". I wrote to them about this inconsistency and they changed "girl" to "child".
For the win!
And as Stu said, you won't succeed at trying to control the words people use. Why not turn the word to our advantage and demand that the term be used consistently? And I wouldn't worry too much about "sex" versus "gender". That's a different battle.
Personally, I find it easier to reject some things outright and try to forge new paths rather than trying to retrofit those rejected. This act also has the effect of removing certain words from my vocabulary in such as way that I refuse to use them (whilst retaining knowledge of them, mind). If challenged on the street I'll rise to it (so long as intellectual discussion is possible) and frame my opinion/thesis rationally. This would have a natural consequence of somebody, quite honestly, calling my rig "unisex" getting a denial of the notion as I do not view it so. ("Nope, it's just what I like.") If conversation subsequently ensues, then a real exchange of ideas becomes possible.
It's actually easier to "steer" language -- and especially slang -- than it would first appear. A good friend of mine has formal credit for coining the phrase "The September that never ended" in regards to USENET, and I've had a couple of my "contributions" come back from outside the "immediate circle". Actively steering things is definitely on the table -- just look at the political sphere in the USA (those outside the USA, beware, and have a barf-bag handy).