Be careful: theses new age men are feminine: relationship advice

[Barleymower]

https://youtu.be/lYYML2yyfes?feature=shared

This video is wrong on so many levels but shows you how the minds of some men and women work. Miss Faye has in my view a warpped view of men on 2024 and what makes a man. There are a lot of comments totally agreeing with her.
Question: is it possible to have eraditcated
t-masculinity, have female empowerment and tradition masculine roles all at once?

BTW she sees MIS as somehow funny.

[crfriend]

Question: is it possible to have eraditcated t-masculinity, have female empowerment and tradition masculine roles all at once?

In the rad-fem world of man-like women, the answer is a categorical "NO" because the masculinised woman utterly replaced the entire ecosystem that traditional masculinity occupied. Ergo, traditional masculinity is as extinct as the dodo and the dinosaurs. Hang it up.

BTW she sees MIS as somehow funny.

She has no reference-points to go on and obviously lacks the intellect to develop a few. In short -- hopeless.

[Mouse]

https://youtu.be/lYYML2yyfes?feature=shared

This video is wrong on so many levels but shows you how the minds of some men and women work. Miss Faye has in my view a warpped view of men on 2024 and what makes a man. There are a lot of comments totally agreeing with her.
Question: is it possible to have eraditcated
t-masculinity, have female empowerment and tradition masculine roles all at once?

BTW she sees MIS as somehow funny.

I am afraid I could only stand 9 minutes of her garbage. The real funny thing is she considers it "relationship advice". If you take a look at her channel there are pages of similar garbage videos, and you can get her whole message just by reading the titles. Not going to spend any more time on her and she is not worth discussing.

[Barleymower]

I agree and said so. I managed about 15 minutes before I could not take any more.
I wanted to know though what her point was and what she saw as the role of men.

The positive takeaway is times are changing, i have more freedom, a lot more freedom than I did in 1985. Despite all the noise some things are moving in the right direction.

[denimini]

Thanks for the comments; saved me wasting time watching

[TSH]

I tend to avoid these "relationship advice" videos like the plague. The problem with these types of videos is that the advice can't be applied to everyone, and it's based on the content creator's own personal biases and standards. Also, most people are just trash, and I'm in no rush for a relationship. I can barely stand my own family; what hope does some random stranger have with me? It's pointless. All the "goods ones" are either gone, or taken.

And ******** to her if she sees MiS in a negative light. Making skirts unisex is a good thing. Gives men more fashion freedom. Makes men more comfortable in warmer climates. Strives to make gender equality another step closer to being real.

[jamie001]

This is one of the worst videos that I have ever seen! Feminine men! She can’t be serious! What about masculine women that have been evolving for the past 20 year. Not a single mention of masculine women! Unbelievable. She is totally promoting masculine women. She supports drab black and white clothing for men.

Unfortunately, I have personally seen this attitude in the black community many many times. What is it with the black community and the rigid stereotypes that they promote? It must be extremely difficult to be a black man in today’s society if you like skirts and other clothing items that are gender coded as “feminine”.

I need to go puke now.

[timemeddler]

This is one of the worst videos that I have ever seen! Feminine men! She can’t be serious! What about masculine women that have been evolving for the past 20 year. Not a single mention of masculine women! Unbelievable. She is totally promoting masculine women. She supports drab black and white clothing for men.

Unfortunately, I have personally seen this attitude in the black community many many times. What is it with the black community and the rigid stereotypes that they promote? It must be extremely difficult to be a black man in today’s society if you like skirts and other clothing items that are gender coded as “feminine”.

I need to go puke now.

Traditional black attire in kenya.

[Mouse]

Traditional black attire in kenya.

I saw that picture a thought African men have not got the 'drab' message and still have their colour..... However, second time I looked, my eye was drawn to the Tartan wrap he is sporting. Several questions spring to mind, is Tartan part of ' Traditional black attire in Kenya '? Is he committing cultural misappropriation on the Scots?

[jamie001]

I wish I could un-see that video that the OP linked. It is the worst thing that I have ever seen on the Cafe. No offense meant to the OP.

[DrFishnets]

This is one of the worst videos that I have ever seen! Feminine men! She can’t be serious! What about masculine women that have been evolving for the past 20 year. Not a single mention of masculine women! Unbelievable.

I totally agree with you. I too watched that abomination of a video and I was disgusted about the hypocrisy of her comments about feminine men yet she says nothing about masculine women. It’s also suspect that all the comments are positive which makes me think that negative comments get deleted. Women like her make the world a sad and depressing place to live in.

[timemeddler]

This is one of the worst videos that I have ever seen! Feminine men! She can’t be serious! What about masculine women that have been evolving for the past 20 year. Not a single mention of masculine women! Unbelievable.

I totally agree with you. I too watched that abomination of a video and I was disgusted about the hypocrisy of her comments about feminine men yet she says nothing about masculine women. It’s also suspect that all the comments are positive which makes me think that negative comments get deleted. Women like her make the world a sad and depressing place to live in.

did you leave one?

[JohnH]

I am a gentleman no matter how I present myself. While wearing a dress, heels, and makeup I will open and hold a door open for a woman wearing sneakers and jeans. And I made extraordinary efforts to take care of my ailing wife while she was alive.
Maybe if women would be more ladylike men might be more gentlemanly. I for one am sick and tired of men and women showing up on Sunday morning at church wearing jeans and sneakers. Personally I'm tired of the ubiquitous, prosaic, hackneyed, dull coat and tie outfits for men, hence my wearing of dresses and heels most of the time instead.
When someone hears me speak without seeing me (s)he might assume I was a tall bearded man so I DEFINITELY do not sound like a woman. I sing second bass in my church choir.
Question to Miss Faye: Why should men have to wear dull and drab colors? Doesn't she realize in the animal word frequently the male is the flashier gender? Because of the Great Male Renunciation catastrophe men are stuck with dull drab clothing.


John

[DrFishnets]

did you leave one?

No I didn’t leave any comment on her video.

I am not a feminine man. I am a straight masculine guy who happens to like wearing skirts and other clothes that happen to be in the women’s clothes department due to their clothes being more stylish and interesting. It really annoys me when people class all men who wear skirts as feminine. It’s like people classing all women who wear trousers as masculine when it’s obvious feminine women wear trousers too. She maybe even thinks men who wear kilts are feminine. I also got annoyed how there is no mention of masculine women.

[JohnH]

I say Miss Faye is really full of it. What she needs is a case of laxative. One thing she needs to be careful when the laxative takes effect is she had better not do a number two all at once. She might clog the toilet.

John