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I purchased this one from Sainsbury's some months ago. I'm afraid I do like neutral colours - even my car is black. The skirt is mostly polyester with a hint of viscose, and Elastane makes it ultra stretchy. The length is as short as I'd want to go with skirts though I do have a slightly more abbreviated denim, but need courage to wear it publicly. I don't think short marries terribly well with senior citizenship! Anyway, this skirt is very warm for these more chilly times of year...almost felt-like. There are no pockets to it, which is a shame but they would probably sag anyway if used. Normally I'd go for ankle socks, but sometimes knee length feels more substantial.
"It is better to be hated for what you are than be loved for what you are not" Andre Gide: 1869 - 1951 Always be yourself because the people that matter don’t mind and the ones that mind don’t matter.
I tend to follow the reasoning that seeing a 70 year old woman in a short skirt could be verging on tarty. I guess it all depends on looks and being able to carry it off. I regret I couldn't anyway with my figure! But I envy your panache.
I like your outfit!! something I would like to try myself. You're right about the pockets, something I always look for on a skirt, on stretchy skirts is seems they're more difficult to find.
It's all about self-image and confidence. Look at SD - he wears shorter than I would ever conceive of doing and other garments too but he seems to have fun doing it and he looks good too.
I believe in offering every assistance short of actual help but then mainly just want to be left to be myself in all my difference and uniqueness.
mugman wrote:I tend to follow the reasoning that seeing a 70 year old woman in a short skirt could be verging on tarty.
I might have said that once, but my wife (who will be 70 in six months) still looks terrific in a short skirt, thanks to yoga, Pilâtes, gym sessions etc. I'm not going to discourage her yet awhile
Pete, looks and sounds a lot like one I found in Sainsbury's, though mine is viscose with a hint of polyester and some elastane. It's quite thick and felt-like too. But it's orange.
I was wearing it yesterday morning when Mrs SS and I were tidying up ready for the in-laws coming for lunch. She said it was too short when I bent over, and asked me to put a longer skirt on. Things are looking up (even if the in-laws aren't looking up my skirt)!
geron wrote: my wife (who will be 70 in six months) still looks terrific in a short skirt, thanks to yoga, Pilâtes, gym sessions etc
Lucky man. I always seem to dwell on the negative, and must work on that.
I do agree that confidence does play the main part in skirting. Unfortunately for me, the higher the hemline, the lower the confidence.
skirtyscot wrote:looks and sounds a lot like one I found in Sainsbury's,
Sainsbury's sometimes have some reasonable items and I always keep my eyes open for anything I might feel right in. If yours has two joins down the front then it sounds like the same as mine.
It does indeed have two seams on the front, about half way from the centre to the side. I think we have found the same skirt, though mine was reduced by 70% to about £4 on account of the nice bright colour.
My next acquisition from the same source, and a bit more jazzy. The first photo is with an unaltered jacket, the second is with one altered by removing 130mm. I think it makes a more likely image. This is a patterned skirt I would probably feel more at ease with in public as the pattern is more folkish than fancy, and easy going. It would possibly look better with a tan jacket, but I don't yet have one.
The altered jacket fits the outfit much better. You cut the jacket because it was a little too stark for the skirt. Have you considered softening the foot ware. Even CR has tried shoes from the other side. . This is just my opinion but wearing a skirt and clunky mens socks and shoes would be like wearing Ballerina slippers with pants.
Shoes from the other side are of no interest to me. I have one wider foot due to a misaligned big toe joint, which sticks out. In the shoe department I go for comfort rather than looks.
This is actually an interesting argument to skirting and kilting. I wouldn't expect many would go for heels with a kilt, though with a kilt skirt they might, even though both have a pretty much similar look. It's all down to personal preference. My interests are basically in the skirt and kilt line, as a change from trousers, and not in female footwear or any other female item. I think something as highly noticeable as an over-long jacket over a kilt needs the same shorter length requirement for a knee length skirt, or it does look like I dressed in the dark. That's really the only thoughtfulness I would be making.