Yes. I agree totally.To the wider world, all these fine words, theories and ideals amount to diddly squat.
Steve.
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- Thu Mar 19, 2026 12:48 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: How to normalise skirts for men: proactively reduce the barrier to entry
- Replies: 36
- Views: 4691
Re: How to normalise skirts for men: proactively reduce the barrier to entry
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- Mon Mar 16, 2026 1:18 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: How to normalise skirts for men: proactively reduce the barrier to entry
- Replies: 36
- Views: 4691
Re: How to normalise skirts for men: proactively reduce the barrier to entry
To normalize skirts for men... For a start, stop using the word skirt. The word 'kilt' is commonly accepted by most people to signify a skirt that it is socially acceptable for a man to wear. I have seen the Greek Fustanelli described as a Greek kilt. When my mother and my aunt first started wearing...
- Sun Feb 08, 2026 3:44 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Asking Google AI
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2151
Re: Asking Google AI
Stu wrote The boy wear the garment with knee length shorts and the girl with bikini bottoms. When the boy wears it, it is a shirt - when the girl wears it - it is a dress. It's the same garment. That's a good way to go, whether or not the kids are twins or even if the child is a boy who may need jus...
- Sun Feb 01, 2026 5:33 am
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Wearing a skirt is not inferior
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1803
Re: Wearing a skirt is not inferior
FL Breezy wrote I wonder sometimes if it's more deeply ingrained than we think. Social conservatism being against men's "feminization" perhaps comes from much older times..."if our men aren't manly enough, our tribe won't be able to defend itself" or something. I don't know. It s...
- Thu Jan 15, 2026 6:18 am
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Son gives up skirts, daughter in combats and dress that became a pencil skirt
- Replies: 47
- Views: 6570
Re: Son gives up skirts, daughter in combats and dress that became a pencil skirt
CR Friend wrote: I witnessed the progress that was made in the '60s and the '70s on this front, and saw it all snatched away in the rightward lurch that convulsed pretty much the entire world at about the time of the Iranian revolution. And now history is repeating. Unrest in Iran and the Overton wi...
- Thu Jan 15, 2026 5:48 am
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Times I wish I was wearing trousers
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2353
Re: Times I wish I was wearing trousers
Damon, How many times have you worn trousers and wished that you were wearing a skirt, or even a dress? Steve. Quite a lot probably, as my feet often get cold at the last minute. I still remember one function when I decided I didn't want to be the only guy there not wearing pants and lo and behold ...
- Mon Jan 12, 2026 12:39 am
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Times I wish I was wearing trousers
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2353
Times I wish I was wearing trousers
I am 84. I got my first kilt when I was 6 and it went to a younger cousin when I was 8 because we were moving abroad. I didn't get another until I was 12. Since then I have always owned at least one kilt and I reckon worn them for a minimum of about 25 days a year, probably more often. That still ad...
- Mon Jan 12, 2026 12:03 am
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: What women really think
- Replies: 113
- Views: 19354
Re: What women really think
Jamie 001 wrote: Please note that not all of us here on the Cafe have a masculine gender identity. Some of us are more feminine and should be respected as such. There is nothing wrong with being a feminine male and expressing femininity in the clothing and accessories that we wear. Please do not let...
- Fri Jan 09, 2026 3:24 am
- Forum: Off Topic
- Topic: Men in skirts in movies and TV
- Replies: 30
- Views: 12701
Re: Men in skirts in movies and TV
Mishawakaskirt wrote I have a concept for a movie but no real way to write or produce it. Upload your story outline to ChatGPT and ask it to write you a 90 minute movie using that as the basis. I would suggest naming your principal characters and including their names in the briefing you give to Cha...
- Wed Jan 07, 2026 2:05 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: What women really think
- Replies: 113
- Views: 19354
Re: What women really think
The voice of reason. Wha a great post! Barleymower posted: If the pandemic taught me one thing, it is this: "we are given the information the media wants us to see". Human's are easily manipulated. There was a massive rise in transgenderism then suddenly it was stopped. It was stopped beca...
- Wed Jan 07, 2026 2:08 am
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: What women really think
- Replies: 113
- Views: 19354
Re: What women really think
c r friend wrote The operative thought should be here, "Would I behave in this manner in a public setting?" or, "Would an otherwise sane person behave so in a public setting?", and if the answer comes up as a "No" then ask the needed questions of the needed parties. I a...
- Tue Jan 06, 2026 11:56 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: What women really think
- Replies: 113
- Views: 19354
Re: What women really think
Stevie asked for some kind of corroboration. Here you go. One of many videos. I got the age wrong. The man is 50. https://youtu.be/2LC0DymxEUE?si=L8iuGP54XUrhZZ4B Okay that's right wing media. But they aren't making the story up. And it is this sort of thing that is responsible for the backlash that...
- Tue Jan 06, 2026 5:41 pm
- Forum: Kilts, Kilts
- Topic: kilt wearing
- Replies: 44
- Views: 17896
Re: kilt wearing
Wearing a kilt year round is not possible where I live. We have already experienced temperatures in the minus 20 Celsius range in December. I don't want to wear tights under it. The whole point of a kilt is the feeling of freedom. I just wear pants, and lined ones at that.
- Tue Jan 06, 2026 5:32 pm
- Forum: Kilts, Kilts
- Topic: The Kilt that Isn't
- Replies: 16
- Views: 2533
Re: The Kilt that Isn't
It's a pity that schools don't just add the option of a kilt to their uniform. And announce that the existing skirt is to be phased out over about 3 years. They are more likely get some boys taking up the kilt option.
- Tue Jan 06, 2026 4:02 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: What women really think
- Replies: 113
- Views: 19354
Re: What women really think
I live in Little Donny's 51st State (Canada for those across the pond). CR FRIEND stated. Recently, because of the uptick in hate-speech and the fact that MIS never properly disambiguated themselves from the trans-* crowd (I've commented on this in the past), I've recently adopted the protective-col...