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Fireworks went off this afternoon! I decided I would wear a skirt after I got home from work. It was the same one that I wore when I wore one around the family. I was sitting on the edge of our bed waiting the my phone to charge a little. I was bent over a little reading something on it while it cha...

Well I did it! I decided on Monday that I would wear a skirt most of the day. I had been on vacation last week and I would put one on when they weren't around or were busy and I know they wouldn't see me. I got tired of being secretive so I decided I just don't care if they saw me. After my wife and...

Hi all, While my issues with my wife regarding my skirts haven't changed, the one with my oldest daughter is just starting. I thought she had seen me once before but today while she was leaving for her job she saw me in one no more than a few feet away. I knew she noticed it because her eyes looked ...

dpinNE wrote: crfriend: What do you mean "do" it? I have some ideas what you might mean but I don't want to assume. In this context, my assertion was that you should just simply wear a skirt or kilt instead of talking about it. Actions, after all, speak vastly louder than words and action...

Thanks all for your experiences. Caultron, I have to assume that you don't have any children at home since you went to visit your son. Do your children all know about your skirt wearing and did YOH approve of them knowing? How did you tell them? Were they accepting of it? MOH says our children can't...

Just responding to others. I'm done with the psychiatry thing and would rather move past that to how to keep bringing the skirt wearing up to MOH. How do you with significant others bring it up to them? How often without over doing it?

I have no plans at all to contact him or any one else. She maybe was thinking that me wearing a skirt was somehow a psychiatric problem and that he could help. One of those things said in the heat of the moment.

Yes, that's my usual advice. Keep slowly pushing, but not enough to spark a major rejection. Question is how to bring it up each time? I thought of telling her that I would go for a walk after dark with the skirt on and see what she says. At least for this time. Since fall is around the corner I wo...

Sinned, a lot of what you mention in your post is something MOH and I talked about a few days ago. I have made it clear that I'm not a cross dresser or a transvestite. I looked up the definition of cross dresser to make sure it didn't apply to me. Separation was even brought up to which I made it ve...

dpniNE, I hope you come back on here and tell us how it is going with your wife. My opinion on it, is you should raise the subject directly. It doesn't sit well with me to be indirect like this. The idea that she found your stash and just "disappeared" it, that doesn't sound like a health...

That makes complete sense. I have thought about what if I see someone I know on one of my walks and what the ramifications might be not only to my wife but to my kids too. That's why, when I saw what I thought was our neighbors' kids truck, I slowed my walking down to stay hidden behind a tree. Thei...

Thanks for all the comments. I know it will get easier. It already has. Today on a very short walk I encountered two bicyclists--a woman and a man. Neither said anything but the man sure looked at me as he rode past. I thought to myself "there's my first stare" and I didn't really care. I ...

I did it! I went for a walk on our county highway and didn't hide. I walked about 1/2 mile from home and only three vehicles drove by. I think one of them slowed down or maybe wasn't driving fast in the first place. Anyway I kept on walking. Maybe next time I can go farther (didn't have enough time...

I have found MOH to be my biggest obstacle so you need to tackle your OH first as if she is on your side then most of your troubles are over. --That is what I figured. In a previous post I mentioned that she wasn't thrilled when she caught me with one of her skirts on. If I remember it right, she t...

I appreciate all the advice. The one thing that I haven't seen addressed much yet is how to break it to my kids? They range in age from 8 to 16. My 16 year old is the one who thinks the shorts I wear are too short. What's the best way to tell them? Is one way to let them all "catch" me wea...